Sunday, August 28, 2005

Question

Acha...I have a question. How does it feel after confiding into someone? Do you feel oops....s/he knows everything now or do you feel light? (s/he maybe close friend/relative/sibling etc) I am curious to know about the state of mind as such. Do you ever feel bad? Have you ever felt that you have done a mistake as such? Well...well...well...lots to answer...So...long comments awaited :)

16 comments:

Wig-nes said...

you know my answer. :)

satosphere said...

Depends on how he/she feels. If it is kind of scornful or critical - I would rather feel "oops". Or if it is helpful, then definitely quite a relief to have shared.

Vignesh said...

You know it already Shobhi - i have always shared all my thougths and feelings with you

Shashank said...

Its always good to confide with people you are comfortable with and can trust. I am generally known to be very outspoken anyway, so not a huge issue for me to speak out my thoughts, but as I said, only to good friends.

Sadly, one doesnt have too many close friends; atleast I dont :( .. but they are always a phonecall away, always!

Chakra Sampath said...

It depends on the person you confide into. When we confide, I think, we are not exactly in the normal state of mind. We are in the stress to download the stuff off our mind and without knowing you, the mind wishes to confide.

Of course, we won't confide into a stranger, but it is also important that the person must be of the same wavelength or be able to think for you to some extent.

What if you pour out to someone and if he/she laughs at you at your plight and also makes sure that it makes the headlines I hav made that mistake once and regretted the decision. :))

Anonymous said...

Russ : I am thoda stupid....I usually dont tell things that r bothering me...but when i do. its good thing off my head...provided listener gives/says something sensible :P hehe

Buckwas said...

Aww !Soo small post afta suchg a loooong time!Wow!Su vaat che???BTW i feel lighter after i have yakked away all the shit inside me!feeels kinda relief, the same after u r back from a releiving session:D

Pravin said...
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Pravin said...

I have different people to confide different things in. And even here, I have a set of backup confiders. So at any point of time, there are always a set of people who know whats going on with me.

And should they all get together, you'd have the complete picture of me. But then these people usually don't know each other at all.

I'm weird, but that's just the way I am.

P.S. naan unne kadaliquerien?

Pallavi said...

hmmm I was careless in confiding which led me into dangerous situations when I was a kid..

Now I learnt my lessons well and well I am very very careful when confiding.. something personal... guard it jealously i can say.. unless its really bugging me :) then it depends on whom I talk too.. some to my hubby.. some to my aunt.. some to friends.. ( rarely friends )

Anonymous said...

i dont think i have ever confided in anyone to that extent :)

Ashwin

Viewer said...

Depends on whome u have confided into.....if it is someone whome u know that he/she is worth confiding in to then u feel relieved, but otherwise u just feel that he/she is a nice person just talking to him/her the first time then i guess i would feel opps why the hell did i confide....

alak said...

no , i hav never felt ---' i shud not have told him/ her '---- in fact i confide only in people whom i think are close to me and respect my words.

doedoe said...

oye that means shld i take tension and break my head on wht i told ya??!!?? nnnahhhiiiii. i trust u.its imp but if d is trust broken well..err..uhmm. u can just pray tht d person goes 2hell. heheh. muah. hugs.

Shobha said...

Gundu: Oh yea...*sigh*

Chakra: When we confide we are not exactly in the normal state of mind.
U just said it Chakra...Very true..

Pravin: U have doubts kya? Aww, lemme clear them out to u, Nee ennai kadalikardillai....:p:p

sonali said...

hmmmm..altho i believe "u can care for many but share wid very very few"... i like it when the other person is actually curious and is not v indifferent to wht am saying..i mean..
when i confide i want it to be heard properly...

and if this happens well i feel at peace.yaar i feel good.but sumtimes...when i get my things to the wrong ears,who start analysing me alltogether with wht i said ,i feel like banging my head and wonder why the hell do i have to tell my things 2 nyone atall;)

funny it is..

-shonu